There are so many people out there that think the idea of being a girl boss is just you know getting the men and being bossy at work. What’s so irritating is that even being a female badass is linked to a male. Like, the thing is, being a GirlBoss has nothing to do with men, or even being bossy. Being a GirlBoss is just being yourself in the most real form ever.
Here are some tips on becoming the boss of your life:
1. Realize that you come first
One thing a lot of women forget is that they need to put themselves before all else. Yes, this world is selfish and yes you have to be selfish too sometimes. It sounds harsh but it is a necessity to prioritize yourself. As females we are too used to giving care as that is what society taught us, and in this we forget to care for ourselves. Remember you matter, and you need to take care of yourself. Follow your dreams, do what you must, and remember to believe in yourself.
2. Identify what is to be done
Prioritize yourself and then prioritize what you need to do. Being a #girlboss does not mean you have to be some CEO, it simply means to follow your dreams and achieve it. If you want to be a good mom, if that’s what YOU want then work towards becoming that, identify what you need to do to become better. If you want to build a business, learn about it, prioritize your business needs, make sure you don’t waste time on the outside world. Remember, to work on yourself you must first identify what you want.
3. Execute the ideas Like a GirlBoss
Don’t just write it down and don’t just dream about it. A dream without execution is just dream. Remind yourself what you wanted to do, make it an attainable goal. Then little by little work on each idea you have. Do not try to rush the process, you are building yourself, you aren’t born a #girlboss you become one over time. Give yourself time to grow, to understand and to experience. Don’t get overwhelmed but do start to execute your ideas.
4. Achieve what you desire
Yes! I mean it, achieve it! That’s the point of being a total boss. A #girlboss always gets things done, she executes and achieves. She doesn’t just dream it, she becomes the dream in reality. You have to execute until you are satisfied with the result. You have to push yourself towards the goal and keep pushing. Getting the result is what needs to be done, and even though it requires much effort, you will only feel like a girl boss when you achieve what you desired. Remember, work without results is mere wasted time.
5. Reward yourself for what you did
A #girlboss knows when she deserves an applause. This is like a little cycle, you have to go back to putting yourself first. Put yourself on a pedestal and feel fabulous, a girl boss can reward herself, she can be proud of herself and flaunt what she has done. A girl boss is never frightened to put herself first and demonstrate what she can achieve once she prioritizes. A girlboss will never hold back from the shine she knows she worked hard to get. So go on, reward yourself and know what you are worth.
Well my darlings, that’s all for today. I hope this 5 minute guide to becoming a GIRL BOSS was of help to you and you feel on top of the world. I hope you follow your dreams and become invincible. You were born queens, but you can become bosses.
– XoXo TheQueen